How to reflect your style in your interiors...WAIT, what is my style??

Finding Your Personal Style at Home (Even If You’re Not Exactly Sure What It Is Yet)

So you’re staring at your living room (or Pinterest board) and thinking: What even IS my style? Don’t worry—you’re not alone. Whether you’re a total beginner just moving into your first place, or a seasoned decorator ready for a refresh, figuring out your personal home style can feel like solving a puzzle with 500 extra pieces. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be that complicated—and it can even be fun.

Let’s dive into how to figure out your style, commit (without fear), and build a space that reflects your real style...not a magazines style

First Things First: What Are the Styles? Before you can find your vibe, it helps to know what the options are. Here are a few popular ones, just to get the ideas flowing:

• Modern: Clean lines, minimal clutter, neutral tones with bold accents.

• Farmhouse: Rustic charm, lots of wood, cozy and welcoming.

• Boho (Bohemian): Layered textures, bold patterns, plants everywhere.

• Traditional: Rich wood, classic furniture, symmetry and balance.

• Scandinavian: Light, airy, minimal but warm (and lots of white).

• Mid-Century Modern: Sleek furniture, retro tones, organic shapes.

• Eclectic: A mix of everything—done thoughtfully.

Of course, there are more, and many people fall somewhere between styles. That’s totally okay and even encourages. Thoughtfully mixing styles gives your space personality and emotion.

How to Figure Out Your Style - - here’s how to start narrowing it down:

1. Look at Your Closet: Weird tip, but it works. Do you go for neutrals or color? Vintage or sporty? Structured or flowy? Your clothing style can hint at your decor preferences.

2. Scroll with Intention: Hop on Pinterest, Instagram, or design blogs and pin or save anything you love. After a while, patterns will start to show up.

3. Take Inventory: What pieces in your home do you already love? A vintage mirror? A velvet sofa? Let those items lead the way.

4. Name That Feeling: Think about how you want your space to feel. Relaxing? Energizing? Elegant? Cozy? Your style should support that mood.

And remember: if you're drawn to multiple styles, that’s okay. We’ll get to that.

Time to Commit (well kind of, but let me think about it)

Once you start to see your sense of style—or your favorite mix of styles— let that be your starting point and start building around it. This doesn’t mean you have to throw everything out, start from scratch, throw away anything "not in your new style" and race to the furniture store and buy a matching set. Please don’t do that. Start by focusing on choosing a few foundation pieces that align with your vibe going forward. Don't be afraid...if your not fully committed, make your foundation pieces a neutral style and use the smaller elements and accessories to support your style.

Keep in mind the end-goal for your interiors when making choices in furniture, colors, textiles. BUT, Use your end-goal as a guide—not a rulebook. If you truly love something, get it!

• Would this lamp work with my modern-boho thing?

• Is this rug too farmhouse for my sleek aesthetic?

• This color is so stark for my cottage-style?

Questions...always questions...

Oh No...is this me? Do I like this stuff?

Your interior style is in progress, then one morning while eating your cereal you look around and wonder "WHAT WAS I THINKING!!" Breathe...it's totally normal. Your style is evolving to your actual life and tastes - as a famous person says "It's a good thing!"

Styles evolve. People change. Your lifestyle might shift. If your once-beloved industrial look now feels cold, you can slowly warm it up with cozy textures, softer lighting, or warmer tones—without tossing everything.

The trick is to stay flexible. Choose some key pieces that can flow across styles (like a classic sofa or neutral rug), and mix in trendier items as accessories that are easy to swap later.

I love it all!! Let’s Talk Eclectic

If you’re someone who loves a little bit of everything—vintage finds, grandma’s teacups, modern art, and boho pillows—eclectic might be your jam.

The key to eclectic is intention. Think of your space like a playlist: different songs (styles), but a similar vibe. Try to connect pieces through:

• Color palette

• Repeated shapes or materials

• Scale and balance

What About Stuff That Doesn’t Match?

Real homes have real stuff—kid art, hand-me-downs, family photos, that weird ceramic duck your aunt gave you. It’s part of the charm. Don’t hide the sentimental stuff. Find a way to honor it in your space.

Here’s how to make it work:

• Children’s art: Frame it in a gallery wall or use fun clipboards to rotate pieces.

• Family photos: Stick to similar frames for a cohesive look, or go for a “collected over time” style with mixed frames.

• Meaningful items: Let them be conversation starters. Your home isn’t a museum—it’s your story.

So go ahead: mix that thrift store vase with your sleek console table. Frame your kid’s drawing like it’s a Picasso. Make your home your own.

Work With a Designer But Make It Your Space

If you’re hiring a pro, awesome. But remember: your home should reflect you, not just their portfolio. The best designers will listen, interpret, and help you refine your style—not impose their own.

Tips for communicating your style:

• Bring visual inspiration (Pinterest boards, magazine clippings, saved IG posts).

• Show them what you already own and love.

• Be clear about how you live—kids, pets, mess, hobbies—it all matters.

• Don’t be afraid to say “That’s beautiful, but not me.”

And Lastly...

You don’t need to label yourself with one perfect style. You just need a space that makes you feel good to be in. Start slow. Experiment. Embrace the imperfections. And remember, your style isn’t something you have to find all at once—it’s something you create, evolve, and live in - BTW, that's the fun part. BE FEARLESS!

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